Guys
So, I think I finally know what I really want in a partner for life. Here goes :
1. Spiritually mature - He needs to know God really well and look to Him for all of his needs. If we are both seeking God and rely on Him it will be easier to meet each other's needs because we won't be so dependent on one another for our own needs to be met.
2. A total geek. Not wierd (by my definition), but really, really smart ( but not obnoxiously smart). Someone I can depend on because they know their way around and I can trust their judgement.
3. Someone who is witty and funny (or at least they enjoy trying to make me laugh), and is into all the geeky things that I love. Someone who is friendly and comfortable with people. Someone that I can just enjoy sharing life with, because we have a lot of the same interests. I don't think we need to have all the same interests though . . .
4. Someone who gets me. Someone who understands why I am so passionate about certain things and who understands my drives and motivations.
5. Someone who is happy, high on life. I understand that we all have our days when things just don't go the best or when we get into moods, but I want to be with someone who doesn't take themselves, or life, (or me) so seriously, and thus is just having a blast living life. Someone who is just comfortable being themselves. That is so attractive.
Well, that isn't all, but those are deffinately the 5 most important things to me. I realize this looks a lot like a personal, but it was just something I felt like getting off my chest . . .
Alvita Zein (phonetically speaking) . . .
1. Spiritually mature - He needs to know God really well and look to Him for all of his needs. If we are both seeking God and rely on Him it will be easier to meet each other's needs because we won't be so dependent on one another for our own needs to be met.
2. A total geek. Not wierd (by my definition), but really, really smart ( but not obnoxiously smart). Someone I can depend on because they know their way around and I can trust their judgement.
3. Someone who is witty and funny (or at least they enjoy trying to make me laugh), and is into all the geeky things that I love. Someone who is friendly and comfortable with people. Someone that I can just enjoy sharing life with, because we have a lot of the same interests. I don't think we need to have all the same interests though . . .
4. Someone who gets me. Someone who understands why I am so passionate about certain things and who understands my drives and motivations.
5. Someone who is happy, high on life. I understand that we all have our days when things just don't go the best or when we get into moods, but I want to be with someone who doesn't take themselves, or life, (or me) so seriously, and thus is just having a blast living life. Someone who is just comfortable being themselves. That is so attractive.
Well, that isn't all, but those are deffinately the 5 most important things to me. I realize this looks a lot like a personal, but it was just something I felt like getting off my chest . . .
Alvita Zein (phonetically speaking) . . .

1 Comments:
I hope you find someone; you drive a hard bargain with your top five. I'm sure God's got a guy for you somewhere.
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